Introspective Adventurer

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Meeting the family

When John finally asked me to be his girlfriend in March 2012, I thought everything would be so much smoother for us from then on. After the last eight months of just friends to quasi dating I was sure things would settle down.

And they did, for a while.

The very first thing he did was to introduce me to his family. John wanted me to meet his Mom. She lived just 25 miles from the little town where I was born, and had never been back to since leaving with my family at age two.

So John decided we should go on an adventure and he took me to Hollister, California and then on to the little canyon where I once lived. My cousin, Ann-Marie Sayers still lives and operates Indian Canyon and it’s there we visited on my mother’s birthday, April 6th.

I had no recollection of Ann-Marie, but from the moment she invited us into her log style home I knew I was with family. We stayed for a bit and chatted about my family and I cherished hearing her warm recollection of my mother.

Ann Marie – photo courtesy of In the Land of My Ancestors

After our visit we asked her permission to go hiking around the canyon.

We climbed hills and traversed over streams and through trees, and then I stopped for a few moments alone to just breathe in and feel the place. It was magical in so many ways.

A magical day
We had a beautiful hike around the Canyon
Indian Canyon

After saying goodbye to Ann Marie, with promises to come back soon, we headed to John’s mother’s home.

John’s parents are from Ireland and I remember asking him if his mother had an accent. He laughed and said no, neither of his parents did.

But when I met his white haired mother, with sparkling green eyes that looked so much like John’s, the first words out of her mouth told me otherwise. To John she didn’t have an accent, it was just the way she spoke and what he heard growing up.

Me and Chris – 2012

She was so kind and inviting and we had a lovely visit together.

Our next stop would be to meet his sister.

It was very important to John that his sister approved of me as he valued her opinion above just about anyone else.

So one sunny day in April we jumped on his big yellow beamer, the one he insisted he wouldn’t let anyone ride, and rode to the East Bay to visit his sister.

Pretending to get to take front seat

That meeting went very well and by the end of April I was invited to join John’s family for Easter dinner, where I met his brother and other sister.

I was welcomed with open arms and everything was going so well between John and me.

On the last Sunday in April, the 29th, we were snuggling up together to fall asleep for the night and just before drifting off to sleep John whispered into my ear, “I love you, Loretta”.

I breathed in his words, smiled and drifted off to sleep.

The next day John left, smiling, to go to his home and take care of business and I left, matching his smile, to go visit my best friend in the East Bay.

Little did I know the circumstances that would unfold later that day would change us forever.

12 Comments

  1. Susie Reed

    2019-01-14 at 09:31

    I am so happy that he took you to meet his family! Of course they all fell in love with you!! How could they not? What a ride you have had so far!! I am hoping things continue to go well!!!! Can’t wait for the next post!!!

  2. Meeting the family on either side is a big step. So glad you guys made it. Can’t wait to see what happens. I know things turn out in the end but the “ride” is fun to read!

  3. Clearly went well sister. A beautiful story that continues to be written…

    • Loretta Sayers
      Loretta Sayers

      2019-01-14 at 13:54

      Thank you…wait until you read what happened! …that man put me through some scary moments!

  4. What a sweet story. Can’t wait to read the rest tomorrow

  5. Waiting for the next post!

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