Just the way I am

I started this blog less than a month ago. My intention was to share my story, and to be authentic along the way. I had this sense that I was racing towards 60 and still trying to figure out life. I want to reach that age feeling confident, wiser, and healthy.

So I just began.

But I’ve started things before. January 2016 I started a personal journal, again. This time, I vowed to write in it daily and keep track of my progress towards losing weight and feeling good. I took measurements and pasted photos in it. I got creative with different colored pens and drawings. I envisioned a diary stuffed full of photos and details about my life.

I not only lost weight, but I wrote in my journal daily. But somehow, neither of those things lasted.

When I look back at what I composed, I am beginning to understand why. Most of what I wrote about was what was going on around me. On the outside. I couldn’t even share with myself, in writing, what was going on inside.

I’m not sure I even knew what was going on within. I mean, I’m happy. I have a fun life. I don’t walk around sad or feeling like a victim. So what was the piece I was missing? Why do this? Why share all of these stories?

In these past few weeks, I’ve shared some of my deepest feelings about my life. And there is so much more to tell. As the posts are written, and the publish button hit, I feel a sense of empowerment. Okay, also a sense of fear.

And I bounce between those two emotions. I’m proud of myself for sharing these things, and I’m scared as hell that I did it. Last night I was filled with so much self-doubt, wondering what in the world I was doing. Am I just looking for validation from you?

This morning I got on the scale. I’ve lost 10 pounds. I feel lighter, and not just in weight. I realize I am very grateful for your validation. I am also grateful for the platform to release my fears and expose myself so that I can learn that I’m okay just the way I am.

Thank you.

Just the way I am

Reader Comments

  1. Lisa

    I don’t think you’re looking for validation from us. If you were, I think your posts would come across more needy, and they come across as strong. For me, a blog works more than a diary because there’s almost a sense of accountability to those who might stop by to read. A diary has no accountability to give you a reason to write, except for yourself. And we can talk ourselves out of anything. But with a blog, it feels like you have to be a little more responsible. Not explaining it too well, but you probably understand.

    • Loretta Sayers
      Loretta Sayers

      Thank you for that Lisa. So true what you said about accountability. I am way too good at talking myself out of something that may be difficult.
      Now I do feel a sense of responsibility.

  2. Barbie

    Admission: I am binge reading your blog from the start. I have read the posts on IG and read the occasional blog djour…I so totally identify with you on so many levels and admire your strength in being so completely transparent. I applaud your strength and courage. Back to binging…..

    • Loretta Sayers
      Loretta Sayers

      Aww…Barbie that is so nice of you to say! I know from your posts on IG that you have struggles in your life and that you are a strong woman.
      Thank you for reading and for sharing your thoughts too Barbie.

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